conversations with DH.

"you are the epitomy of what another wants to become. but can never. perhaps due to self esteem, talent or some other issue(s).

and jealousy will eat into them. turning them into completely different characters from who you used to know them to be.

uncharacteristic. ah yes, that's the word..

and many a times their jealousy morphs into something that is completely and utterly ridiculous. picking petty fights. insisting that the world is wrong except them. nitpicking on your every word and every being.

but we all need to learn how to deal with these people. not because we need to put up with their nonsense. but simply because we know they aren't always like that.

so we put up with them. hoping that all that is going on is transient. that they'd get over themselves or whatever the issue(s) may be.. "

DH had called me a couple of days ago, telling me that he had quit the club after i did. i guess it would've been a good way out. considering how disillusioned he had been over the past few months.

the topic of the day was.. why do we put up with people who are jealous.

couldn't ask for more of a topic. and i was just glad to ive my two cents worth.